How can you feel sorry for Jovan Belcher?

I have been listening to and reading the news and listening to the talk shows about the murder-suicide that took place today with an NFL player. I felt upset and sick. everyone talking about and mourning the death of Jovan Belcher. WHY??? The real tragedy and who we should be mourning for is Kasandra M. Perkins who he shot several times in the same room as their 3 year month daughter. Feel sorry for the little girl who never will know her parents. Jovan then took the easy way out and killed himself, leaving a huge mess for his family and Kasandra's family to clean up and deal with. Please quit feeling sad and sorry for him. What is wrong with the world? How can everyone be talking about him now. Let's pray for her family, the baby and his family that they can somehow be healed and be able to move on.